.....aaaaand the birthday.......

 My kid turned six. SIX. Every day he looks more like a big boy and less like my snugly toddler. Even though we are between two houses, we were able to celebrate in style. Slight disclaimer: this birthday was sponsored by Toe's grandparents. My mom and stepdad came and cleaned the house, provided party favors, and cut ice cream when we forgot the scoop. J's mom and stepdad decorated the living room and Toe's bedroom, put up the pinata, and provided child care the day before. (Meanwhile, J's brother and Uncle worked on the house and the yard).

J's parents, great uncle, and brother all came to help us celebrate (from Texas, Arizona, and Portland), and celebrate we did.

Grandpa Boat, Grandma Gus, Toe, and Uncle Awesome

I made pies:

My Gra'ma's apple pie (Toe's request)

Berry. Notice the lattice work? That reflects my current state of mind.

 We invited Toe's really good friend (whose mom is my friend) who comes over for playdates more than anyone else and Toe's best friend from Kindergarten.

Chairs? We don't need chairs!

This was the big hit. The kids didn't mind that it took forever to break. They were happy with 1-3 pieces each whack.

I needed a little energy from Ron afterwards.

 Right after the party, we packed up and drove to Portland, spent the night, and the next day we went with Grandma Gus, Grandpa Boat, and Great Uncle Mark to the Zoo.

Followed by:

 

By some strange coincidence, two of our friends from high school also have children born within 25 hours of Toe. He adores both of them. It seemed fitting to invite Mr. D. to celebrate with us. He and his dad joined us for an afternoon of fun.

The birthday boys, born 25 hours apart.

Thank you to everyone who helped make this happen, who celebrated with us, who sent Toe birthday wishes, and who creates a loving community for this boy.

Toe is already planning his seventh birthday. I am planning a nap.